Met up with an old friend the other night and had a moment that will long be forgotten. The years that have past between us without really “talking” have haunted me for many years.
I hate how stubbornness plays such a huge part in my life. It’s like this consistent part of me that creeps up even after I think I’ve dealt with it. I’m not gonna stay negative on my stubbornness though, my point is that it’s crazy how stubbornness in my life can lead to years of separation but 30 minutes of honesty can wash away years.
Makes it so clear to me that we were made to be in unity and “all goodness” with one another.
Now I sit here picturing my two faithful readers being like…”thanks Julie for this awesome nugget of wisdom” (sarcasm) but here’s the deal…we all (or many of us) obviously don’t get this well (me included) or there wouldn’t be so much dang tension and separation between relationships and families in this world. Make me sad.
So, how are your relationships with people in your life? Is there someone you need to make sure you’re “all good with”? Why not instigate and reach out to them…what have you got to lose?
Friendship, time, grace, love February 3, 2010
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So true, Julie. It’s easy to let small wrongs become huge in our minds. Easy way for the enemy to destroy relationships and increase the isolation in our lives…